Friday, October 1, 2010

When is a negative a positive?

Hunter has had a trying couple of weeks. He's been waking up at 1, then I when I finally get him back to sleep, he wakes up again. I repeat the process for about an hour.

Then in addition to this, both of my children seem to be taking lessons out of the "101 Ways to Whine" book and they are driving me crazy. Well, last night we went through his new routine (I'm wondering if it's night terrors?) so this morning I was t.i.r.e.d. but I had an offer I couldn't refuse- the chance to go to Ikea with a friend (so fun, even if I was dragging myself through the store, it was worth it), but after a little while Hunter started crying, pulling hair, he wouldn't eat anything, and he would whine about everything. This of course just added to my energy crisis. Then when we were leaving my friend's house, Mikayla had a meltdown. I got Hunter to bed, gave Mikayla a bath, and tried to lay down. Just opening my eyes at this point seemed to take more energy than I had. Of course it didn't last long and when Hunter got up he was back to whining and Mikayla was pretending she didn't know what it meant when mommy said "No"...I was so incredibly frustrated at this point (I may or may not have thrown a toy doll, making her head fall off). I try to be patient and not yell or spank too often, but they make it so hard sometimes! So, I decided to try something new: I put her in a "cold" shower (it's pretty much impossible to get a cold shower in AZ right now), she hated it-effective. Well, Hunter saw, started crying, so I put him in. He loved it. He was laughing and having so much fun.

I don't know if you've been around Hunter when he laughs, but it is soo contagious! Soon we were all giggling. I took him out, dried them off and grabbed my camera. We laughed and played and posed for the camera. It ended up being a really fun, silly experience. Instead of getting upset, we were able to turn their energy (and my lack of energy) into something fun and lasting.


{I love this picture, he's actually making puppy noises...that sound like kitty cat noises. Too cute}




4 comments:

Mary-Sunshine said...

they are absouletly adorable. good pictures too ruth! i wish i had that talent to just take such great, candid pictures!

bethiepoos said...

sooo cute ruth! you are such a good mommy x

Liz said...

Those kids can seriously try their mother! And then seriously melt anyone who glances at them! A dangerous combo....

I don't know how you do it...and I don't know how you write so well about it!

Keep it up...those positive times make it worth it, doesn't it?!

Jill said...

Ruth!!! You have such cute kids, really, you do! :) And I can't tell you how much I envy that piece you re-did! It's gorgeous! Great job!! You are MY idol!